Keep the hats you like

For every opinion you find online,
You will find an equal-but-opposite opinion.

For every best-practice you find online,
You will find someone who did just fine without it.

For every process, habit, or ritual you find online,
You will find someone who used none of those things.

Do please learn. And enjoy learning, that’s awesome.

But don’t ever feel you need to adopt any of the ideas you learn as your own.

Try them on, like hats. See how they feel. See how you feel.

Keep the hats you like, throw the rest out.

Suits you.