Whether we like it or not, people use social networks for… a lot.
Whether we like it or not, it’s one of the primary ways people discover anything and anyone anymore.
Whether we like it or not, extensive use has been proven to increase the odds of anxiety and misery.
I like the idea of ‘Slocial networking’ instead.
Social, but slow. Slocial.
Slow, as in speaking to a few people, as people, not a lot of people as a crowd.
Slow, as in taking the time to actually see people, and get to know them, rather than merely secure their ‘likes’.
Slow, as in build relationships, giving and receiving support because of who you are, not because of what you want.
When enough people do that, we get to tell the others about the things we’ve seen.
Our sphere of interest can remain small, because everyone has a different sphere based on the relationships they’re nurturing.
Our work can spread through good will, rather than because we’re louder than other people who are also trying to be loud.
It’s not for everyone, I’m sure. But I’m about the slocial networking. Loving on people, bringing gifts, and letting them pass them on if they like what they see.
Isn’t that better?